Make the Most of Your Single Life

Transform a season of waiting into a season of passion, purpose, and preparation

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Transform a season of waiting into a season of passion, purpose, and preparation

In this four-week course, we’re going to help you start living the life you’ve always wanted to live as the woman you’ve always wanted to be (which are also the things that just might catch his eye!).

There’s a seat at the table with your name on it and we can’t wait to get started. Scroll down to hear all that we’ll be talking about.

What will we be learning? Glad you asked!

Module1
See your single life in a whole new way

In Week One, you’ll learn:

  • Why you’re still single (Spoiler alert: It’s NOT because you messed everything up, or because you’re unlovable. I’ll prove it to you!)
  • What God says about marriage (this will change the way you pray about it!)
  • How to embrace your desire for marriage without making it an idol
  • How to stop being afraid of being single forever
  • What it looks like to wait well and trust God with this season
  • The question that when you answer it and live according to the answer will lead to a single life you L.O.V.E.
Module2
Design a life you love, and start living it today!

In Week Two you’ll learn:

  • How to start enjoying your single life instead of just enduring it
  • How to infuse your life with more joy and contentment while quieting pesky comparison
  • How to design a life you love (and how that might just be how you meet a really great guy!)
  • How to use this season to form the community you’ve always wanted
  • How to grow closer to God in this season
Module3
Become the woman you've always wanted to be

In Week Three you’ll learn:

  • How to use this season to become the woman you’ve always wanted to be
  • How to start believing you are who God says you are
  • How to create a plan that will help you grow in the ways you’ve always wanted to grow
  • Why investing in yourself is actually the best way to set yourself up for a great relationship in the future
  • A powerful tool for building confidence (Which also happens to be your dating secret-sauce!)
Module4
Navigate the dating scene with faith and confidence

In Week Four you’ll learn:

  • How to know if you’re ready to be in a relationship
  • What part of finding a husband is up to God (how much you should be waiting on God), and what part is up to us (how much you should be taking initiative).
  • How to be proactive in dating while still being pursued
  • What you should be looking for in a guy (And what you should avoid!)
  • How to keep yourself from settling for the wrong guy
  • How to find good, quality men to date (Even when it feels like you’ve run out of options)
  • How you go from finding those good quality guys to actually going on a date with them
  • How to keep yourself out of the friend zone
  • How to flirt in a way that’s totally not sleazy or embarrassing
  • The decision I made (that you can make too!) that will help you live a life you love, become the woman you’ve always wanted to be, make you more likely to meet a really great guy, and help you be in a great place to be in a great relationship when you do.

Bonuses I know you'll just love!

  • #1
    Singleness and Sex Drives

    You may be single, but does it sometimes feel like your sex-drive didn’t get the memo? In this never-before-seen bonus video, we’re having a super honest, shame-free conversation about how we should handle our sexuality as single women. We’re talking about where the line is, what’s okay and what’s not, if we should be waiting to have sex until marriage, and if so, what to do with our sex drive until then. Last (but certainly not least!) we’re going to have an honest talk about masturbation. Shame-free. Promise!

  • #2
    The inside scoop on online dating

    In this bonus video, you’ll feel like you’re at happy hour with your girlfriends, and the topic of the night? Online dating. You’ll meet my charming and hilarious friend Carly who’s explored the ins and outs of the online dating landscape (and has the BEST stories from her journey along the way). But Carly didn’t just walk away from online dating with great stories, she walked away with a fiance! She met her (almost) husband using a dating app, and in this video she’ll tell us the whole story.

    She’ll tell us about her reservations about online dating, why she decided to give it a try anyway, the inside scoop on dating apps versus websites, the philosophy about dating that really worked for her, and now, having done it, whether she feels like her reservations were valid or not. And she’ll share her advice for you if online dating is something you’re thinking about too!

  • #3
    How to answer uninvited questions about your love life

    One of the worst parts of being single are the questions — family and friends asking about your love life, (or often, the lack-thereof). It seems like nobody knows how to talk to us about it without leaving us feeling not good enough, small, embarrassed, or just plain mad.

    So in this bonus video, we’re putting some answers in your arsenal. From now on, when people start asking you questions about your love life, you’ll know just how to respond.

  • #4
    How to keep your friends when it feels like they're leaving you behind

    If you feel like you’re losing all of your friends to marriage — this video is for you! In this bonus, I’m sharing my 6 tricks to maintaining friendships even through changing seasons. Your best friends can still be your best friends, even once they’re married. It just takes a little understanding and intentionality. But don’t worry. I’ve got you covered!

  • #5
    Single Life To The Full: How to actually live that way (from someone who's really doing it!)

    In this bonus video, you’ll meet my amazing friend Brianna Glenn. Bri is 36, she’s single, and she lives more vibrantly than anyone I know. Brianna is a world traveler, a small business owner, has an amazing group of best friends, and loves God with her whole heart and her whole life.

    In this video, Brianna teaches us:

    • How she lives her single life to the full (and how you can too!)
    • How to make travel a priority (even if it feels like you have no one to go with!)
    • How to maintain amazing friendships even after your best friends get married (you’ll never back out of being 3rd wheel again!)
    • We talk about waiting until you’re married to have sex (and the blessings that come from still waiting even when you’re waiting longer than you thought you would!)
    • We talk about our biological clocks and why she trusts Jesus with her desire to have a family
    • And so much more!

     

    Bri lives a full, vibrant, joyful, adventurous, Christ-focused life, and she shows us how we can too. I can’t WAIT for you to meet her!

  • #6
    Why God's timing is bigger (and better!) than the invisible deadlines we set for ourselves

    So many of us have this idea of how our lives should go. So many of us have said, “Well, if I’m just married before I’m 30, I’ll be okay!” In this bonus video, my dear friend Hanna will show us all over again why God’s timing truly is best, why we can (and should!) stop worrying about those invisible deadlines, and why getting married after 30 was the best thing that has ever happened to her… and her marriage.

Here's what some sweet friends had to say...

This course far exceeded my expectations. I thought it was just going to be tips about living your single life and it wasn't. It was so much deeper. It was about finding myself, healing, God, grace, freedom and much more! — Maria

The course is the sermon on singleness you’ve always wanted but have never found... helpful, applicable, relatable, and actually enjoyable. It’s so worth your time and money.” - Shelby

Through this course I learned that I do not have to wait. This is my life RIGHT NOW! and that is so exciting. I am not going to meet my husband sulking in my room — I wouldn't want to meet him that way! I want to meet him living my passions and chasing God and living my life so fully. I learned that I do not have to wait to have a ring on my finger to become the woman I want to be! — Claire

“Signing up for this course isn’t a sign of defeat. Rather, it strengthens you, pushes you to grow in ways you never thought possible, and causes you to reflect on who you are now and where you’d like to be. I’d make the decision to sign up again a thousand times over.” - Kara

Doors to the course are closed, but they'll be open up again between February 5th and February 9th!

Click here to put your name on the waiting list!

More sweet words from more sweet friends...

 

“This is not just another “help for singles” article, or self-help philosophy, or list of shallow, ‘churchy’ advice! This course will help you dig deep into yourself — to determine and define who you are and to get closer to the God who adores you.  If you need fresh perspective, some direction, and just need to feel loved and understood, SIGN UP!  It’s like a girls’ day, a spa party for your spirit, and a Bible study all rolled into one.  Girl, trust me, you NEED this!”

– Courtney

“Because of this course, I feel a million times more confident in my single life, a million times more confident on the prospect of dating, and a million times more loving towards myself and this season of life I am in!”

– Devon

“This course made me so excited to live in the here and now, and it boosted my confidence and self-esteem. I feel more empowered and confident in putting myself out there, but more than that I feel overwhelmed by God’s love and all that He is doing for me right now. I found so much joy and peace through this course. It absolutely exceeded my expectations” 

– Alexis

“This course has been the best decision I’ve made all year! I just can’t say thank you enough for helping me see the beauty in this period of life! You’re amazing!”

– Emily

“This course gets into every detail about being single, dating, past relationships, sex, it doesn’t leave anything out!”

– Alexandra

“Since taking this course I can feel myself laughing harder and smiling more. Life just feels so much richer than it used to!” 

– Savannah

“Stephanie teaches you how to live your life so that you won’t regret anything ten years from now, and she allows you to see the whole picture in a way that is almost impossible without someone guiding you through it all.” 

– Laura

“I cannot express how valuable this course has already been in my own life! It has changed the way I view myself, and has also given me an even greater love for the Lord!” 

– Kamber

“I feel like Stephanie gave me permission to finally live the life I’ve been dreaming about.” 

– Elise

“Because of this course I started taking action on my dreams! I got a puppy, I started exercising, and I am signing up for a real estate exam to get my license!”

– Alexis

 

 

 

 

 

HAVE QUESTIONS ABOUT THE COURSE? I'VE GOT YOU COVERED!

What is an online course? How does this work?

Great question! I think online courses are still a bit of an unfamiliar thing. So let’s break down what it actually looks like to join us. 🙂

When you sign up for the course, you’ll make a username and password. That information allows you to log in to a private website where you can see the videos and workbook that make up the content of the course.

The course goes for five weeks, and on Monday of each of those five weeks, you’ll be able to see a new set of videos. They’re pre-recorded, so you don’t need to be a certain place at a certain time. You can watch them on your own time. If you fall behind in those 5 weeks, that’s totally fine. You can catch up whenever you like. The videos don’t expire. You’ll have access to them indefinitely. So you can take however long you want to go through them, and once you’re through them, you can always go back and watch them again.

So how it works is that you watch the video (they range in length. Some are 10 minutes, the bonus videos tend to be longer), and then once you’re done watching the video, you head to your workbook (which you’ll get when you sign up!) and you’ll answer some questions there.

That way you’re not just learning, you’re putting it into practice in your life!

The third component of the course is that you get access to a private Facebook group. That group is just for girls who are going through the course, and it’s amazing because it’s this beautiful community where everyone’s in a similar stage of life all over the country, where they get to pray together, encourage each other, ask each other questions, and cheer each other on. That Facebook group is just so great because everyone gets to find out that they’re not alone in what they’re going through!

So the course really is a collection of videos, and a workbook for you to fill out, and a private Facebook group. You watch the videos, reflect on what you just learned and do some exercises in the workbook so you can actually put what you learned into practice. And you get to talk through it with a wonderfully supportive community in the Facebook group!

Again, I know that an online course is a new concept to lots of us. So I hope that makes it a bit easier to understand!

I would LOVE to do this course, but I really can't afford it right now. Do you offer any scholarships or discounts?

 

Love, I’m so happy this topic resonates with you so much! It’s one of my very favorite things to talk to women about.

So, unfortunately I don’t offer discounts, or do any scholarships, and that’s for two reasons.

The first is that I’ve done everything I can to offer this course at a rock-bottom price. Comparable courses and programs are usually offered for upwards of 1,000 dollars! And so because I want as many of us to be able to participate as possible, I’ve tried to keep the cost super low.

The other reason I don’t do discounts or scholarships is because I’ve noticed that there’s such a strong correlation between what we put into something and what we get out of it. When we’ve invested our hard-earned money into something, we’re more likely to give it the best of our time, and our effort.  You really will get so much more out of this course because you have some skin in the game. It’s crazy how it works that way. But it’s really true!

So I know money is such a tough thing for us. Trust me, budgets are such a thing in the Wilson house. And so if you’re not able to join us this time around, I totally understand. Hopefully you can join us sometime in the future!

I really want to do this, but I'm worried I'm not going to have time. What kind of a time commitment are we talking about here?

Great question!

So the way this course works is that it’s four weeks long, and there are four lessons each week.

Each lesson is comprised of a video (10-20 minutes long), and some reflection questions. The reflection questions are my favorite part because they’re where we put what we learned into practice. They’re so important.

And so I’d guess that each lesson will take you about 45 minutes.

So overall, the course will take you three hours a week for four weeks in a row.

However — I know that life happens, and that you might be in a busy season or have a trip coming up or a crazy season at work. And so if you fall behind, or aren’t able to go through it exactly on that schedule, that is totally fine. You’ll have access to the videos for as long as the program exists (Which we hope is for years to come)! So you can watch them whenever works best for you!

Do I really need a course to make the most of my single life? Can't I figure this out on my own?

That’s totally up to you! If you’re loving your single life, feeling totally confident in your dating life, and feel like you’re doing great on your own, that’s awesome! I love that!

 

But if you…

  • Feel lonely, or confused, or stuck, or find this season being really hard, or…
  • Wish you could enjoy this season, but all you can focus on is what you don’t have, or…
  • Wish you could sit down with a friend who’s walked this road before and pick her brain about how she did it, or…
  • Wish you had some girlfriends who were also single who you could talk to about what you’re going through, or…
  • Wish you didn’t have to always learn things the hard way, and wish you had someone to guide you through, or…
  • You really have no idea what you’re doing when it comes to meeting guys, or dating, or you’ve been trying things and they’re just not working, or…
  • You want to start living a life you really love as a woman you’re really proud to be…

Then this course has your name all over it. You can totally try to figure this stuff out on your own. But life is so much better when we do it together, right? You have this resource available to you. Why not use it?

How do I know that this will work for me?

That’s a great question! The last thing I’d ever want you to do is to invest in something that’s not going to really be helpful and beneficial to your life.

So I’ll tell you two things:

First: The principles, ideas, and lessons I’m going to teach you in this course have been backed up and verified by experts in the different fields we’re diving into. Not only that, but I have personally used and benefited from each lesson I’m going to share with you, and it led to a single life I absolutely loved. I’ve also seen these principles and lessons be beneficial in the lives of countless women — friends, and loved ones, but also in the lives of my readers. These are lessons that have helped thousands of my readers over the last four years. They’re tried and true. You can count on it. 🙂

Second: That being said, whether this works in your life is really up to you. You will get as much out of this course as you put into it. But I know that if you put your heart, your time, and your effort into this course, and then you actually put the things into practice that we talk about here, you will see both your single and your dating life start to transform.

Okay, but if it really doesn't work for me, can I get a refund?

 

Absolutely. Love, more than anything, I want this to be helpful and beneficial to your life. And so if you make it through the course and feel like this wasn’t helpful, I would be more than happy to give you your money back (Not happy, because I’ll be sad that it wasn’t helpful… you know what I mean!)

But I do have three things I’ll ask you to do before I give you a refund:

  1. I ask that you complete the course first and submit all of your completed worksheets to us. I want you to really put your heart into the course, really give it a solid chance before you decide it didn’t work.
  2. I ask that you include a letter to us detailing the reasons the course wasn’t beneficial to you. We want to continue to make this course better, and so if it didn’t work, it’s important that we can understand why.
  3. We ask that you submit your refund request within 30 days of when you signed up for the course. Since the course is only a month long, we won’t be able to give refunds after those 30 days are up.

 

If I don't sign up this time, when will you be offering this course again?

Great question! I don’t currently have plans for when I’ll open the course up again. So if you’re interested in taking the course, I’d sign up now just to make sure you’re able to!

I saw that there's a Facebook community, but I'm not on Facebook! Should I still sign up?

That’s a great question!

First of all, I applaud you for not being on Facebook. I love seeing women make the decision that’s best for them when it comes to social media.

Second of all, unfortunately, the community aspect of the course really is going to require a Facebook account. And so if you don’t have one, you have a few options.

You can…

  1. Get back on Facebook just for the next month.
  2. Create a new Facebook account just for the course. That way you can be part of the discussion in our Facebook group, but you don’t have to deal with any of the other distractions of Facebook.
  3. Join us for the course without participating in the Facebook community. While you will miss out on the community aspect, you’ll still have access to all of the course content, and materials. So you’ll still be able to learn and apply everything in your life, you just wont be able to discuss it with the other women in the community. But that’s okay with me if it’s okay with you!

 

What you decide is entirely up to you! I want what’s best for you love. 🙂

Is this course only for Christians?

No! Of course not! Anyone is welcome! However, I will tell you that we do talk about Jesus, about prayer, and about the Bible throughout the course. So if that’s something you’re comfortable with, go ahead and join us! But if you’re looking for something that’s more faith-neutral, this might not be the best fit.

Can men take this course?

Nope. Sorry gentleman! This one is for girls only.

How long will I have to access the materials?

You’ll have access for as long as I offer the course! (So hopefully for years to come!) But, I will say that you’ll receive the best support, encouragement, and community if you complete it in the month when we’re all going through it together.

I’m going to be hanging out in the Facebook group as much as possible over the next month. But after that I won’t be as available to answer questions, and the rest of the group might have already finished the course. So, while you can go back and re-watch videos, and re-visit the content as much as you’d like, I would recommend tracking with us for that first month so you can get the best encouragement, support, and community possible!

When does the course start?

The course will begin the Monday after doors close! However, the course is self-paced and so if you’re out of town that week (or one of the weeks during the course), or if you fall behind, or are working with a crazy schedule, no worries at all! You’ll have access to the material indefinitely. So you can totally work at your own pace!

If I sign up but need to back out at the last minute, can I?

We understand that life circumstances can change incredibly quickly, and so if you sign up but need to back out at the last minute, we totally understand. You have until the Monday that the course begins to back out for a full refund. But because the course is more of a service and an experience than a product, we’re unable to accept “returns” after the course begins.

If you complete the course and aren’t satisfied with it, however, that’s another story. Check out the FAQ with the title: “Okay, but if it really doesn’t work for me, can I get a refund?” to see our Satisfaction Guarantee.

Is this a good thing to do in a group setting, or is this meant to be an individual journey?

This course is meant for individuals to go through on their own. However if you have friends who are also signing up, you could keep pace together and discuss what you learn at the end of each section!

Can I share my login information with a friend and have her go through it too?

Each login is meant to be for one person only. I kindly and humbly ask that you don’t share the content of this course — the videos, the worksheets, the information — with anyone who hasn’t themselves purchased the course. Real talk for a second? The profits from this course allow me  to pay my bills which allows me to continue doing what I believe I am meant to do in the world. And when copies are made, or login information is passed around, it really hurts my ability to continue. Thank you so much for your consideration and respect!

Is this course a good substitute for counseling?

This course is designed to be an encouraging resource and a step in a healthy, positive direction, but it is not a replacement for professional in-person mentorship, counseling, or therapy.

I am not a licensed therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or counselor. If you feel you are in need of help please reach out to a professional or call a help hotline in your area to help you through your time of need. If it feels urgent call your local law enforcement for immediate assistance.

I have a question that I don't think you've answered yet.

I’m happy to answer any questions you can think of! Just send me an email! Hello@StephanieMayWilson.com. 🙂

Registration is currently closed, but will be opening back up Feb 5 - 9!

3-Payment Plan
$89/mo
3 Easy Payments!

Let’s space this out a bit! 

  • 18 practical videos (that feel more like a coffee date with your best friend than a class!)
  • Audio versions of the videos (for listening on the go!)
  • A downloadable workbook with reflection questions that will help you put these ideas into practice! (This will be your favorite part of the course. Just you wait!)
  • A prayer to read over yourself as you begin each day
  • Access to a private Facebook community of girls right there on the journey with you!
  • Access to Stephanie during that month in the Facebook group — she’ll be there to answer your specific questions!
  • A huge list of curated resources to take your learning one step further
  • 6 bonus videos:
  • – Singleness & Sex Drives
  • – The inside scoop on online dating
  • – How to answer uninvited questions about your love life
  • – How to keep your friends when it feels like they’re leaving you behind
  • — Single Life To The Full: How to actually live that way (from someone who’s really doing it!)
  • – Why God’s timing is bigger (and better!) than the invisible deadlines we set for ourselves
  • A single life you love (which is priceless, let’s be honest!)
ADD ME TO THE WAITING LIST
One Time Payment
$247

Save $20 when you pay all at once! 

  • 18 practical videos (that feel more like a coffee date with your best friend than a class!)
  • Audio versions of the videos (for listening on the go!)
  • A downloadable workbook with reflection questions that will help you put these ideas into practice! (This will be your favorite part of the course. Just you wait!)
  • A prayer to read over yourself as you begin each day
  • Access to a private Facebook community of girls right there on the journey with you!
  • Access to Stephanie during that month in the Facebook group — she’ll be there to answer your specific questions!
  • A huge list of curated resources to take your learning one step further
  • 6 bonus videos:
  • – Singleness & Sex Drives
  • – The inside scoop on online dating
  • – How to answer uninvited questions about your love life
  • – How to keep your friends when it feels like they’re leaving you behind
  • — Single Life To The Full: How to actually live that way (from someone who’s really doing it!)
  • – Why God’s timing is bigger (and better!) than the invisible deadlines we set for ourselves
  • A single life you love (which is priceless, let’s be honest!)
ADD ME TO THE WAITING LIST

More sweet friends with more sweet words...

“Holy cow! I feel like a million bucks! I have learned that I AM worthy of a loving, Christian relationship. I have forgiven myself for my past relationship mistakes, and now know how to not repeat them. And most importantly, I am completely content in my season of singleness right now!”

“I thought it was going to be helpful, but had no idea just how much mind-blowing wisdom and revelation was waiting for me inside these videos. I can honestly say that the information has been life changing.”

“It’s the dating boot camp you wish someone shared with you in high school.”

3-Payment Plan
$89/mo
3 Easy Payments!

Let’s space this out a bit! 

  • 18 practical videos (that feel more like a coffee date with your best friend than a class!)
  • Audio versions of the videos (for listening on the go!)
  • A downloadable workbook with reflection questions that will help you put these ideas into practice! (This will be your favorite part of the course. Just you wait!)
  • A prayer to read over yourself as you begin each day
  • Access to a private Facebook community of girls right there on the journey with you!
  • Access to Stephanie during that month in the Facebook group — she’ll be there to answer your specific questions!
  • A huge list of curated resources to take your learning one step further
  • 6 bonus videos:
  • – Singleness & Sex Drives
  • – The inside scoop on online dating
  • – How to answer uninvited questions about your love life
  • – How to keep your friends when it feels like they’re leaving you behind
  • — Single Life To The Full: How to actually live that way (from someone who’s really doing it!)
  • – Why God’s timing is bigger (and better!) than the invisible deadlines we set for ourselves
  • A single life you love (which is priceless, let’s be honest!)
ADD ME TO THE WAITING LIST
One Time Payment
$247

Save $20 when you pay all at once! 

  • 18 practical videos (that feel more like a coffee date with your best friend than a class!)
  • Audio versions of the videos (for listening on the go!)
  • A downloadable workbook with reflection questions that will help you put these ideas into practice! (This will be your favorite part of the course. Just you wait!)
  • A prayer to read over yourself as you begin each day
  • Access to a private Facebook community of girls right there on the journey with you!
  • Access to Stephanie during that month in the Facebook group — she’ll be there to answer your specific questions!
  • A huge list of curated resources to take your learning one step further
  • 6 bonus videos:
  • – Singleness & Sex Drives
  • – The inside scoop on online dating
  • – How to answer uninvited questions about your love life
  • – How to keep your friends when it feels like they’re leaving you behind
  • — Single Life To The Full: How to actually live that way (from someone who’s really doing it!)
  • – Why God’s timing is bigger (and better!) than the invisible deadlines we set for ourselves
  • A single life you love (which is priceless, let’s be honest!)
ADD ME TO THE WAITING LIST